Showing posts with label life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label life. Show all posts

Sunday, December 25, 2016

The Artidote. The life saver!!!

People are at a high risk of being judged by society for actions that are seen as being against “cultural values”. Women, more so are often judged for their actions and are labelled as loose for being open about their sexuality. 

Getting pregnant out of wedlock is one thing that is sure to bring a barrage of judgmental comments. Arguing its morality or seeking a debate on whether if its right or not might not be much worthy when a life is at stake

Here's an incident where a girl in Delhi took a call to end her life on having known about her accidental pregnancy. But life as you know it, brings a lot of surprises and the girl was lucky enough to have reached out to "The Artidote", that turned out to be a life saver.

(The Artidote is a space where to bond, story-tell, empathize and heal through art curated by Germany based Jovanny Varela-Ferreyra.)


Here's the snapshot of how it panned out!!! 




 She received messages of love from around the world....









... and was overwhelmed and decided against killing herself.







In spite of the world becoming a tough place to live in, there is love all around and people who would want to see others live a great life. God bless those good hearts!! 

Be good... do good.. spread love, it's christmas time after all...

Merry christmas and a happy new year to one all!!.

- DC

Courtesy: Deccan Chronicle

Wednesday, April 20, 2016

Have faith and keep living!!!

In life, you’ll probably experience adversity at some point or the other and while you can often overcome challenges, sometimes setbacks can seem almost insurmountable. Such times need you to be more resilient and stronger than ever before. Living life is all about having faith in yourself, your talents and your purpose. 

Despite being born without arms or legs, from a rare disorder called Phocomelia, Nick Vujicic, an Australian born motivational speaker insists that challenges have not kept him from enjoying great adventures, a fulfilling and meaningful career, and loving relationships.  Despite all the bullies and depression during child days, he thrived and succeeded. 

They say, whats more important in life is to have significance beyond our own self and to be of some value to others. Nick Vujicic symbolizes such a life. He has confessed to have overcome trials and hardships by focusing on the promises that he was created for a unique and specific purpose, that his life has value and is a gift to others, and that no matter the despair and hard times in life, God is always present. Through stories from his own life and the experiences of many others, Nick usually motivates one and all to want a "ridiculously good life” and to become unstoppable. 

Vujicic notes that his mission has been to use his perceived disability to start life-changing conversations with his listeners. His core message as a motivational speaker is that regardless of a person's circumstances, it is possible to overcome them and that obstacles can be turned into opportunities.

- DC

Here are some of his videos and articles that are truly inspiring!!

https://www.youtube.com/user/NickVujicicTV

Sunday, February 21, 2016

The Story Of Neerja Bhanot - The Girl Who Punched Terrorism In The Face And Became A Hero India Would Never Forget

It must have been a proud moment for her parents when she was posthumously honoured with the Ashok Chakra in 1987, but her absence in their lives would have hurt more than ever. The void she left in their lives must have made their hearts bleed. They lost a daughter, a loss that could never be replaced. Fifth September, 1986, was the day Neerja Bhanot, a model and a flight attendant, was killed in the Pan-Am-Flight-73-hijack and it’s a story India shall never forget. 
“Neerja would talk about the training that Pan Am used to give, including what to do in case of a hijack", recalled Aneesh Bhanot, Neerja’s brother in an interview. Neerja Bhanot lived up to her promise. She fought to save lives till her last breath. Two days later, she would have turned 23. Here’s the story of how Neerja Bhanot, an ordinary 23-year-old girl, managed to save 360 lives on a hijacked flight and became the youngest recipient of Ashok Chakra, India’s highest peacetime military decoration award for valor, courageous action or self-sacrifice away from the battlefield. 
Story Of Neerja Bhanot, The Flight Attendant Who Died In 1986 Pan Am 73 Hijack
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The day was 5th September 1986. The Pan Am Flight 73 was to depart from Karachi and fly to New York via Frakfurt. Neerja Bhanot was on board as the senior flight purser on Pan Am Flight 73 on that unfateful day. Four armed terrorists dressed as Karachi airport security guards boarded the aircraft at Jinnah International Airport in Karachi. The plane was hijacked. When Neerja Bhanot tried to alert the cockpit crew, the terrorist held her by her ponytail. She still managed to shout out a warning through a secret code. The cockpit crew escaped at once, as per their mandate, so the aircraft couldn’t be flown forcibly.
The terrorists threatened to shoot Rajesh Kumar, a passenger on the flight, if the cockpit crew wasn’t brought back to the aircraft in the next 15 minutes. Rajesh was shot dead, and his body thrown out of the plane. The cockpit crew was gone and the only person who could have saved the day was Neerja. She took charge and fought on, not for herself but for the 360 people trapped inside the aircraft. The terrorists held the cabin crew at gunpoint and ordered them to collect passports of the passengers. Knowing they’d shoot the Americans among them, Neerja swiftly hid their passports, even disposed some off the rubbish chute. There were 41 Americans on board, only two died.
Seventeen hours later, the terrorists opened fire. They were armed with assault rifles, pistols, grenades, and plastic explosive belts. Neerja Bhanot put aside all fears and took charge. She used her presence of mind to get to the emergency exit. No, she didn’t flee. She couldn’t. She was a patriot, she couldn’t see innocent men, women and children bleed at the hands of these terrorists. She opened the emergency exit and helped the passengers evacuate the aircraft. She was shot to death while protecting three children. She took a bullet to protect other people. She died fighting terrorism. She gave up her life shielding humanity. She lived a brave life, and died a hero. Twenty people died in that hijack. Neerja died so that 360 others could live. 
Story Of Neerja Bhanot, The Flight Attendant Who Died In 1986 Pan Am 73 Hijack
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Neerja was the kind of braveheart we only hear about in stories. Your sacrifice did not go to waste, Neerja. The nation will always remember you, as the brave young girl who punched terrorism in the face and emerged as a hero for generations to come. Respect!!!
Courtesy - TOI

Friday, August 29, 2014

The Happy Life!!

I recently came across a quote that read, "It's not our abilities that show us who we truly are; it's our choices". True to the core. You can't change the situation you face, the only thing you can change is how you choose to deal with it. And that's where self conscience takes front and makes you do what you want to. Whenever your heart and mind lock in conflict, just do what you consider right, rather than desirable. You will never live to regret it. 



Focus on what you wish to tell yourself;  it helps you transcend the self and connect to yourself. Learn to forgive others and more importantly, yourself. Neither blame nor pity anyone. We all make mistakes; what is important is not to repeat them. Carve space and time for people close to you - relatives and friends. These are the people who stand by us in good and bad times, those who sustain and cherish our very souls. Do not waste time on parasitic relationships or spending too much time at work. As they say, there is always time for each and everything in life. Be clear about it. Play while you play. Work while you work.  




Life and love are nothing but a stringing together of moments. It is in the smallest things that we find our most beautiful and sometimes most catastrophic moments. Never ignore the small for the larger picture. Take time to appreciate and be grateful for the many little blessings you are surrounded by. It will go a long way in reducing that killer stress and making you a happy person. 

You can never be everything to everyone, so choose your priorities carefully rather than spreading yourself out too thin. This will help you lead a satisfying, happy life.


- DC

Saturday, August 23, 2014

BUCKET LIST!!!

People always dream about things that they want to do in life and I’m no exception. Though it may seem premature, I have a few things on mind which I keep thinking about; of doing it in the near future. Here are the ones which are on priority.

- to turn into a Business Analyst
- to help my dad set up a Business
- to send my parents on a Euro Trip
- to marry the Girl of my dreams
- to build my own House
- to go Sky Diving


“Business Analyst”:

Call it destiny that I got into Mobis India Ltd.  Since my childhood, I was keen to work in Auto-mobile Industry and my interest in management and operations did help my cause. It was a fortune moment when i joined MIN after my masters. Adapting to the new environment wasn't difficult; what with the likes of my peers being so friendly. Healthy learning over a couple of years and with the guidance from all around, I was able to contribute to the company's cost saving for which I was recognized with the "Proud Mobisian Award", which I take pride in. Literally. Leveraging this start, I would like to put in my best efforts to get a deep understanding of dealer sales and operations so as to turn into a business analyst soon. I only hope I’ll earn it with time.          

Business for Dad:

               Kids more often than not term their dad as their role models and I have always seen my dad as one. I have witnessed him go through tough times in his career and eventually succeed with excellence. It is his passion and commitment that inspires me the most and I would as well like to grow up like him for my son to look up to me. Through all these years, I hardly remember him spending leisure time. His favorite past time would always be working on something or the other and not rest a while. He is about to get his retirement come July. So in all likelihood he would not want to be idle at home. And there is always my childhood interest of turning an entrepreneur; so why not try it out! I would want to help my dad establish a business - an apparel outlet probably, where we can design our own apparel range with suggestions from friends and colleagues who’d volunteer. So in a few months, I wish I could help my dad into this set up and there is always this pride of owning a business.

“Euro Trip”:

While in Sweden (doing my MS), I had the opportunity of witnessing the scenic beauties of Europe which has a multitude of countries, diverse mix of cultures & traditions and regional & ethnic communities. A trip to Frankfurt, Helsinki, Florence, Rome, and Venice made me savour its architectural excellence, years of preserved history, fashion and design that the place very much symbolizes.  The collage below would best suffice the fun I had.
And, I’m looking forward to gift this wonderful experience to my parents. A Euro trip so they could get themselves off on a holiday, sans all stress that one would go through at their age. Just to let them enjoy time together after all these years of constantly looking after me and my brother. I think it is an opportune moment for me to show them my love once more, and since I’m in a position to afford it, it would only be wise to gift them a week of their own life back to them. Plans are on for spring.

“Dream wedding”:

During the course of this, I would like to get married to the girl of my dreams. I think it is just the right time for me to get settled with a family of my own. Just like all guys do, I too dream of a girl. I believe I would get to meet her soon and when I do, I won’t hesitate to confess my love. It comes in handy being friends with a lot of couples, I have learnt a lot about relationships and that there are bound to be difference of opinions. But then, I firmly believe that I will be able to make it through since relationships aren’t just about what couples have in common but how they make it through, even with disparity.
So I just hope to meet my girl and get married. And with marriage comes a moral obligation of having kids and since I myself love kids, I would love to have a couple of them, a girl & a boy ideally. Raising children are always fun and it is the greatest feel a father and mother could get. I know how happy a mom & dad could get just cherishing the moment of watching their kids grow up & I wish I experience that soon. 

“Duplex”:

I have never felt the need for luxury all my life since I was fortunate enough to have been brought up without being given too much than what I actually needed. So it has never occurred to me to desire for things that I don’t need. But I think there are times when desires and needs change. I have been living with my parents since my birth and I had been comfortable all along but once I’m married, I feel the need of moving to a house of my own, of course with my parents to feel more responsible and also, to be able to give my kids the comfort level that I had while staying with my parents.

So I have started planning and probably in another couple of years, I’ll get started with my dream project of my “Duplex”. However, it is quite a challenge, with the current boom on realty taking land prices to staggering heights. But then, with every challenge comes an opportunity and I’m pretty confident of making it count. “Home. Sweet Home”

“Sky Diving”:

As children, we always had our insights about superheroes - Superman, Batman and so on. We wished we had those super human abilities - to fly, to fight and to be charismatic. We were so intrigued to those characters that at times we even tried  to imitate them resulting in a fracture or a bruise. But having grown to know those were just fictions, we can now only have a grin in our face thinking those unfulfilled dream; the very dreams which we could only fancy fantasizing. But still, fantasies do come alive.

One can’t oversee the classic from film maker Christopher Nolan - The Batman Series. It is a series with much logical sense which rationalizes the acts of a batman and doesn't defy the laws of physics even at a single frame. So I've been wondering if I would be able to make the flight of a batman. Not possible in real life unless there is something similar on its line - Sky Diving. At least I would be able to get a bird’s eye view and find myself afloat in the sky. Scary though!

The major obstacle of achieving anything is “not believing” in it. And they say,

“If you can imagine it, you can achieve it.
If you can dream it, you can become it”

I’m dreaming it. And I believe in my dreams.

   - DC