I recently came across a quote that read, "It's not our abilities that show us who we truly are; it's our choices". True to the core. You can't change the situation you face, the only thing you can change is how you choose to deal with it. And that's where self conscience takes front and makes you do what you want to. Whenever your heart and mind lock in conflict, just do what you consider right, rather than desirable. You will never live to regret it.
Focus on what you wish to tell yourself; it helps you transcend the self and connect to yourself. Learn to forgive others and more importantly, yourself. Neither blame nor pity anyone. We all make mistakes; what is important is not to repeat them. Carve space and time for people close to you - relatives and friends. These are the people who stand by us in good and bad times, those who sustain and cherish our very souls. Do not waste time on parasitic relationships or spending too much time at work. As they say, there is always time for each and everything in life. Be clear about it. Play while you play. Work while you work.
Life and love are nothing but a stringing together of moments. It is in the smallest things that we find our most beautiful and sometimes most catastrophic moments. Never ignore the small for the larger picture. Take time to appreciate and be grateful for the many little blessings you are surrounded by. It will go a long way in reducing that killer stress and making you a happy person.
You can never be everything to everyone, so choose your priorities carefully rather than spreading yourself out too thin. This will help you lead a satisfying, happy life.
- DC
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